Anyone else not really vibe with DN communities?

I think a lot of it had to do with the people I met, especially other DN’s. I feel like a hypocrite to sit here and be like “those ones are bad, I’m one of the good ones” or turn this into just an oversimplified “america bad, other places good”, but I really feel like my experiences with other DN have left a bad taste in my mouth and made me refrain from sharing with others (especially local people) that I live a similar lifestyle.